Sex

It’s such a simple, sensuous word. It gets my attention instantly. The second someone says the word, my ears perk up. I don’t like to evesdrop by but I can’t help it when I hear the word “sex”. I like hearing the naughty details of everyone’s lives. The intimacy between two people is taboo and […]

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Thursday Thoughts

Writing erotica is a lot like riding a bike. Because well, you’ve got to ride something in order to know how to do it. OKAY. Maybe not, but if you write something and it’s awful, you get back up on your bike, so to speak, and you try it again. You learn from this and […]

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Thursday Thoughts – Embracing Your Sexuality

Sex is a lot less taboo than it used to be and I’m happy about that. Because we’ve finally gotten to the point where we are more likely to be supported when we open up about how we feel sexually. But don’t let this fool you. We still have such a long way to go. […]

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Tuesday Tips – How To Give A Killer Handjob

Sometimes it’s just a lot of fun to do some mutual masturbation. It’s something that’s different and can be used in a variety of situations from just because to not being able to have sex in the place you’re at. I wish I could find the post on Reddit I read a while back. (Before […]

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Tuesday Tips – Love Yourself

Confidence is not only sexy, but it’s so good for you. Not only can confidence lead you to have a better sex life, it can lead you to have a better life period. Don’t let your self-consciousness hold you back in life. Learn how to love yourself. Stop Being Self-Critical This is one of the […]

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Tuesday Tips – Sensual Massage

This post does include affiliate links that I do earn a small commission from when items are purchased via the link. Massages are one of the best things ever invented. But a sensual massage can make you feel even better. One of my biggest fantasies (that’s been completed once already) is getting a massage that […]

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Tuesday Tips – Use Your Lips

Lips are an erogenous zone, did you know that? An erogenous zone is an area of the body that is sensitive to sexual stimulation and your lips are a big one for this. Kissing is so sensual and sexy. I remember the first time N kissed me. We’d hung out two nights in a row […]

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Masturbation Monday – Squirting

Are you a squirter? Have you met a squirter? Do you consider it the unicorn of sexuality due to it’s rareness? If so then nice to meet you, I’m a unicorn. Squirting has long been seen in porn while it’s hard to find in the real world. It’s really not that hard to squirt, but […]

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Writing Wednesday – Female Characters

So you’ve figured out what you want to write about and you’ve read through the ABC’s of Erotica and you’ve got your plot figured out. Now it’s time you sit down and work out the ins and outs of your Female Character’s story. This is the information I’ve learned from being in the industry for […]

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Drive Him Wild

I’ve talked a lot about seduction and what guys can do like fingering and foreplay today I want to focus my Tuesday Tips on him. These tips are coming right from what N likes so not every person with a dick is going to like these specific things, but it won’t hurt to try it […]

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