Mutual Masturbation

Mutual Masturbation can be a way to incorporate some sexy time into our busy every day lives. It’s the perfect way to connect when you’re too tired to actually have sex. Or it can be a fun way to switch things up. Sometimes it’s easy to fall into a rut where you have sex the same way over and over again and it’s nice to do something that freshens things up. That’s where mutual masturbation can come into play.

What is Mutual Masturbation?

Mutual Masturbation is the act of using your hands or fingers to pleasure your partner(s). It can be done with two or more people. It could also involve pleasuring yourself for your partner(s). Bringing toys into the mix can help in the pleasure experience. It can be used as a form of foreplay where it doesn’t lead to orgasm or it can be done as the sexual act between partners as is and can lead to orgasms.

Some Tips

Talk With Your Partner(s)

If mutual masturbation is something that you’re interested in doing with your partner(s) the first thing you should do is talk with them about it. Let them know that it’s something you’d like to try out. I believe communication goes far when it comes to all things sex.

Bring in Toys

Mutual masturbation does not have to be just something you do with your hands. Bring in a toy or two to spice things up even more. Dildos, vibrators and pocket pussy’s are great ideas for toys to bring into the mix.

Start With Masturbating for Your Partners

I think the hottest thing in the world is N watching me masturbate. I think it could really ramp things up if you start out by playing with yourself for them and then bring them into the mix so you can both touch each other.

Mutual Masturbation Can Be Fun For Everyone

I think everyone should try mutual masturbation at least once in their lives. It can bring a whole new type of sesh into the bedroom and is a great thing to turn to if you have been stuck in a rut and are having sex in the same positions over and over again. We all need something a little different in our lives from time to time.


Have you tried mutual masturbation before?

3 thoughts

  1. Definitely yes. It’s fun to add porn as well as toys into the mix. Lest we forget some kinkier items like nipple clamps, candlewax and/or a little whip, etc…. I find it a major turn-on to watch my husband pleasure himself. Very hot 🔥! I don’t mind being watched either… lol

  2. Thanks for the reminder!
    Usually for us it doesn’t quite work because we get so focused on the other one we stop paying attention to our own bodies.

    Same thing happens with the 69 position. One or the other loses focus and then cums. Or we both are at it a very long time.

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