Sex Toy Must-Haves For 2020

2020 is literally right around the corner. While I have listed some awesome toys in my gift posts this month, I thought I’d make a list of toys that you should at least try out in 2020. These are toys I have researched and are on my top “to-try” list, so keep an eye out for reviews on them in the next year. And we can never have enough of them, right?

For Pussy’s


I tried to find a good dildo on the cheaper side, but apparently if you want a really good one, you’ve got to spend triple digits to get it. But it seems worth it. This beauty is made from Platinum Silicone and is Vixen’s most realistic dildo to date. It is 7-1/4″ in length and 1-3/4″ in girth. It comes in 5 colors; Vanilla, Caramel, Chocolate, Midnight Pearl, & Tie Bright.

The Vanilla, Caramel, and Chocolate are all $116.00. The Midnight Pearl is $120.00 (currently sold out). The Tie Bright is $124.00

Clitoral Vibrator

LELO for $139.00

The SONA 2 Cruise has the tagline of “Clitorally Mindblowing” on Lelo’s website. Since I tried (AND LOVED) the Satisfyer Pro Penguin, this is on the top of my list to try in 2020. The description just makes it sound so fucking amazing. When you push it hard against your body, it INCREASES power. Mmm. It is currently on sale for $104.00 instead of the original $139.00.

Dual Stimulator

Lovesense for $199.00

This rabbit dual-stimulator from Lovesense is also on the top of my list. I’ve always loved Rabbit’s. I sadly (and for reasons even unknown to me) haven’t had one in a few years. My last two were cheaper ones that of course quit working within 6-12mo. This gorgeous vibrator not only stimulates both areas that I LOVE having stimulated, but it can also be wirelessly controlled which will make N so happy. Like most rabbits, the head rotates and the arm vibrates. I personally can’t wait to try the vibration patterns “Fireworks” and “Earthquakes”.

This is another toy that’s currently on sale. Get it for $99.00. That’s a savings of $100.00. And I think I’m going to go scoop one up right now… BRB.

G-Spot Stimulating

Njoy Pure Wand
Smitten Kitten for $134.99

On my hunt for the best sex toys, I kept coming across this little beauty as being listed as “the best G-spot stimulator”. According to Smitten Kitten’s description this is a famous toy that’s used in porn to make the porn stars have gushing orgasms. If that doesn’t sound fucking hot as all hell, then I don’t know what does.

I had another category listed for Anal toys, but from what I’ve read this is also one of the best anal toys. So why not kill two birds with one stone and get it for both purposes? That’s my intention for this next year!

Mini Vibrator

Crave Vesper Vibrating Necklace
Amazon for $69.00

Tell me that this isn’t the most coolest thing ever. I can wear and bring my vibrator with me everywhere? Hell yeah. It’s small, quiet and has four different vibration patterns. And it’s a cute necklace. What more could I ask for? This one is a little cheaper than some of the other toys on this list, but the ratings seem to be pretty great. With a 4.6 out of 5 from 106 different people.

The good reviews: It’s more powerful than you think.

The bad reviews: If you don’t recharge it for a certain amount of time, it will be DEAD forever.

Take what you will from that. I’m adding this to my list to check and see if both the bad and good reviews are true. But also, I like the idea of wearing my vibrator around my neck out in public. It sounds super hot.

For Dick’s

Masturbation Sleeve

LELO for $189.00

Look another LELO product! They really do have some crazy innovative toys. Like this male masturbator. This very sleek looking toy has a very intriguing description.

F1s massages you with deeply satisfying sonic waves for an entirely new, completely mind-blowing sexual experience.

LELO’s Description of the F1s

Sorta makes me wish I had a dick to try it out. But I think I’ll be buying this for N so we can get some male sex-toy reviews up on here. Now this toy is expensive, but a lot of times that just means it’s an amazing toy.

Prostate Play

Aneros Helix Trident
Smitten Kitten for $55.99

Again, we have another sex toy from Smitten Kitten. This one is for Prostate Play. And if you are wondering what the fuck that is, or why the fuck anyone would want to do that please feel free to check out my info on The Male G-Spot. Prostate play can be the best pleasure a man feels in his life and I really think all men should at least try it out once.

I also want to mention that the Njoy Purewand is also listed as one of the best sex toys for prostate play. So you and your partner can have matching toys. 😉

For Couples


We-Vibe Sync
We-Vibe for $199.00

This vibrator is one of the toys I’m most excited about trying in 2020. This toy is perfect for couples to use during sex. And I’m so interested in if it’s going to be as highly rated by N and I as it has been by various other couples. It’s designed specifically to be used with couples.


Wedge/Ramp Combo
Liberator for $250.00

I’ve seen this sex wedge/ramp from Liberator all over the place this year. And it’s on my top list of items for N and I. He has been wanting to try something like this out for so long. So why not go with the best? This is a combination that is meant to provide you with the best pleasure in different positions including (but not limited to) missionary, doggy-style, and 69. Yeah that’s right, they market this as a great tool to use for 69 and I can see why just from the design. It’s pretty expensive but seems absolutely worth it.


Amazon for $18.00

Everyone knows what my favorite lube currently is, but since I put this in my Naughty Gift Ideas For Him post, I’ve been very curious as to how good this compares to my current favorite. And the price isn’t too steep which is a win in my book.


Advanced Unisex Strap-On Harness Kit
Lovehoney for $39.99

This is described as being adjustable for the wearer’s comfort. It’s perfect to hit either the G-spot or the P-spot. Depending on who is getting fucked. This toy is perfect for anyone who wants to bring a little kink into the bedroom. This is a maybe on my list as it can work for DP. I mostly put it on this list for anyone looking for a good toy like this. It’s inexpensive and has 4.5 stars from 264 customers. The dildo attached is 7 inches.

This toy is also currently on sale for $35.99.

Double Sided Dildo

Doc Johnson Crystal Jellies Realistic Double Ended Dildo
Lovehoney for $22.99

This toy is more lesbian friendly and while I do not have a double ended dildo on my to-try list for 2020, I wanted to include it so I could be as inclusive as possible. (It can be used on just one person though so I could throw it on my list.) This dildo has a rating for 4.5 out of 5 stars from 168 people. It’s 12 inches, bendable with rounded heads and a textured shaft. And it’s another inexpensive toy.

Cock Ring

Tor 2
LELO for $139.00

Oh look, another LELO product. I swear this post is not in any way sponsored, nor do I have any affiliate codes. They just look so fucking interesting and keep popping up all over the place. This vibrating cock-ring is one of their bestsellers. It’s meant to not only vibrate for your partner’s pleasure, but it also helps you to have a more intense orgasm. What’s not to love?

I can’t wait to try out (most of) these products in 2020! Which one are you most interested in? Which one is on your list of must-haves?



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