Sometimes it’s just a lot of fun to do some mutual masturbation. It’s something that’s different and can be used in a variety of situations from just because to not being able to have sex in the place you’re at.

I wish I could find the post on Reddit I read a while back. (Before I left it.) It was a post about how girls don’t know how to give guys good handjobs and how they’d really just rather do it themselves.

But where’s the fun in that?

Follow These Tips

  1. Wrap your hand around his penis – You have to do this with the perfect amount of pressure. Too light and he won’t feel much. Too tight and it will be more uncomfortable than pleasurable. You should have a nice firm grasp on it. Use your finger and thumb in a “v” shape to help hold his erect penis up so it doesn’t move around.
  2. Use lube (or your saliva) – Make sure you apply something to allow your hand to easily glide up and down. Penis’s are not self-lubricating like vagina’s. Make sure you remember that.
  3. Make sure you include the tip – The tip of the penis is the most sensitive area. Much like the clitoris, all of the nerve endings are in the tip. It’s where everything feels the best. If you’re just jacking the shaft, it’s never going to work. He won’t enjoy himself. (Even if you think he is. Guys can fake it too.)
  4. Use a masturbation sleeve – Another great way to give a good handjob is to use a masturbation sleeve. They are designed specifically for this and can be a lot of fun for him.
  5. Wash your damn hands – Seriously. Don’t go after his penis after a long day without washing your hands. You don’t know what kind of germs you’ve got on your hands, you also don’t want to get any dirt inside of his penis if there’s dirt under your fingernails, so make sure to take care of that.
  6. Talk dirty – Just because you have to wash your hands, doesn’t mean you have to keep your mouth clean. Don’t forget how much we use mental images. Talk dirty to him to really get him going. Tell him the things you want him to do to you. Or the things you want to do to him.
  7. Communicate – Make sure you are communicating back and forth about what is working and what is not. Soon enough you’ll learn all the right spots to touch and you’ll get him off sooner.
  8. Use both hands – If your one hand gets tired, add the other. This can also be a fun way to switch things up during and bring him new & different pleasure.

Recommended Products:

I have three products in mind that are perfect for this both do come from Pure Romance and both are absolutely amazing.

  1. Hand Jive Reversible Masturbation Sleeve

This masturbation sleeve is reversible. Start with one side and flip it over to the other side for a different sensation. It is open on both sides so you both can play.

2. Masturbation Sleeve (RGB Collection)

Masturbation Sleeve RGB Collection
Pure Romance $30.00

This masturbation sleeve is from our RGB collection. A collection aimed at inclusiveness. (The line that’s perfect for the LGBTQ+ community!) Pair this one with the creamy whipped lubricant!

3. Whipped Creamy Lubricant

This whipped creamy lubricant is pretty amazing. It’s designed to work with either of the masturbation sleeves above. (Plus it’s flavored in some pretty great flavors that make it the perfect addition for oral.)

4. Just Like Me Original Water-Based Lubricant

Just Like Me Original Water-Based Lubricant
Pure Romance $20.00

This lube is amazing. Seriously. I think it belongs in every person’s bedroom. It’s great because it’s water based so you don’t have to worry about silicone lubricant ruining your silicone toys. (Silicone + Silicone = NO!) It’s also amazing because it is PH balanced and mimic’s a woman’s natural lubricant. If you want something that makes your sleeve feel a little more human like, this one is perfect.


I hope you enjoyed these tips and will use them the next time you go to give a handjob! ❤ If you buy any of the products, I’d love your feedback! prbyashleywagstaff@gmail.com

Even if you don’t purchase anything I’d love to hear how these tips worked out for you!

XX,

Ashley

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One thought

  1. I like the sleeve suggestion. One of the tricky parts about hand jobs is proper hand care. On average ya’ll got bonier hands, we’ve got more padding, which means you have a narrower squeeze zone, on average. Don’t double down on that problem by letting your hands get dry , though you can certainly guilt your dude into buying your lotion if that becomes an issue :D. The sleeve suggestion takes care of this though.

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