Thursday Thoughts -Vacation Sex

The best kind of sex is vacation sex. Why? Well, for starters you aren’t home. All the regular stresses that you deal with on a day-to-day basis aren’t around you. They aren’t eating away at you (and your libido). When you are on vacation you get to relax and just live in the moment. This is the best thing for sex.

Relaxation is the key to amazing sex and an amazing orgasm. If you are all tensed up chances are you’ll have a hard time reaching your O (or if you’ve got a vagina, you might not even O). Stress kills confidence as well as desire. But relaxation can cause confidence and desire to bubble over. It’s almost animalistic the way I feel when we’re on vacation. All I think about is ripping our clothes off and fucking hard.

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I love vacation sex purely because of how relaxed I am. (Except maybe travel days. But who isn’t too exhausted to fuck on travel days?)

N and I have been to Vegas 3 times and Nashville 1 time. All four childless-vacations have been amazing for our sex-life. The sex we have when we are on vacations has led us to try kinkier stuff and new positions. We found one of our favorites while we were in Nashville.

With nothing but time on our hands to enjoy as our own, we were able to take our time and enjoy more. We try to do this, but at home it can get harder. 

Vacations are the perfect reset for not only our minds and bodies, but our libidos. I’m already insatiable as it is, but when we’re on vacation it doubles. I want it even more. I want to do it in crazy, random places with crazy, random people watching. I want to experiment with new things. I want to ride N’s cock and not stop. EVER. 

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When we return from our vacations it seems that this new found sexual desire sticks around for at least a couple months. We’re more relaxed with one another and our experiments follow us back home. (Maybe not all of them. I mean what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas, right N?)

I think everyone needs to take a vacation for just the sex. Take some time out of your busy schedules to just be present in the moment. Both of you together and willing to do whatever gets thrown at you. Even if it’s a stay-cation. Go to the sex shop, get some new toys and lingerie and lock yourselves away for at least three days. 

Vacation sex is simply the best.

4 thoughts on “Thursday Thoughts -Vacation Sex

  1. Have you by chance read “Come As You Are” by Emily Negoski? It has excellent sections on the role of stress in inhibiting sexual pleasure.

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