Fingering

Are you aware that there’s a technique to fingering? Well, there is if you wanna make the girl cum. Or even just to warm her up a bit.

1. Wash Up & Check Your Nails

Seriously don’t be stuck your fingers in anyone’s vagina if you haven’t washed your hands right before. You wouldn’t want a doctor touching your sensitive areas without washing their hands first, right?

Also, make sure your nails aren’t all jagged from biting them or whatever. Please don’t scratch us in there. It wouldn’t be a fun time.

2. Gentle

You’ve got to go gentle at first. Women love gentle touching and we get more turned on by lightly brushing our skin than we do by full-on fingering right off the bat. That’s too rough for foreplay. It really only takes losses and light touching.

3. Play With The Clit

Don’t forget our clit while you are down there! It’s one of our most sensitive areas. It would be like if we didn’t touch the head of your dick when using foreplay. And touch it gently. Too much pressure on the clit can hurt/be uncomfortable and ultimately you’d be turning us off.

4. Begin

Once you’ve followed the above three steps and you’ve at least teased the clit some, you can either slowly work your finger in or slide it in a little more aggressively. (But please don’t be aggressive if you haven’t tried anything else. You’ll just turn us off.) building up is so much better for us females.

*Remember, if she isn’t wet it doesn’t necessarily mean she is turned off. It could be hormonal. Please don’t ask why she isn’t wet. Just grab some lube without a word. If you ask why she isn’t wet you could make her self conscious and then she’ll never get off.

5. Find The G-Spot

The G-Spot is located just a few inches inside of the vagina. It feels texturized. Almost raised like. If you feel that you’re on it. If it hasn’t been stimulated yet, it won’t be as prominent because the blood flow hasn’t been focused there. Once you play with it, you’ll notice it more.

Now curl your finger(s) in a “come here” motion and keep doing that. You may or may not get her off from just that.

6. Hard Fingering

If you don’t want to focus on the g-spot that’s okay too. But try to include it a little bit. Otherwise now is the time for what you really want to do. Shoving your fingers in her pussy hard and fast. Do it. At this point hard fingering is perfect. Go ahead and shove your fingers in and out hard. Use your thumb to play with her clit a bit and if she doesn’t cum it’s okay. She probably still really enjoyed it.


Is there something you or your girl likes more than others? Let me know below! These are all tips that would totally get me off but every female is different and so is their sensitivity. Some women can come easier than others. Some of these tips might not work for your girl and that’s okay. You have to find out what works best for her. The best way to do this? Play and communicate.

XX,

Ashley

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5 thoughts on “Fingering

  1. Sometimes we use this for coreplay, especially when the night seems to just call for mutual masturbation, but generally we use this as warm-up/edging, and in that use case every time she’s close I do a hard anterior press(towards the front while standing, upwards while laying on back) with the full length of my fingers and hold it there a moment and let her come down. (also useful during oral sex as a way to increase sensation) I especially like to do this when she’s standing because I can use her legs buckling as a guide and sorta hold her weight with it a little. If you let her get too close to the edge and do that though you’re gonna push her right over.

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