You know how it starts. Things just get far too steamy and you can no longer resist the person you are with. You’re in the car. You’re kissing and touching one another. The windows are getting foggy. You know where things are headed next.
I can count on one hand how many times I’ve had sex in a car and the reason I’ve had so few car sex experiences is that I hate it. It’s uncomfortable. I’ll be the first to admit that car sex can be hot due to the spontaneity that usually goes with sex in a car. But there’s just so much more to it that’s made it a rare occurrence for me.
The last few times I had sex in a car was with one-night-stands or ex-boyfriends that were playing with my head. Which could be a reason why I hate it now.
Car Sex is UNCOMFORTABLE
If I’m not 100% comfortable it can be very hard for me to come. The few times I’ve done it, it has always been in the front seat of a car. The guy in the driver seat and I undress and get on top. Sure I only have to take some of my clothes off making it quick, but there’s so much more going on. The steering wheel, whether you move the seat back or not, the steering wheel is still right behind the person on top’s back. Not to mention, there’s not enough room to comfortable place my thighs and you’ve got the gear shift or gear selector next to you making it hard to spread your legs more.
Legally it’s a Big NO-NO
I know breaking the rules can be hot. It can make things a little more intense thinking about getting caught, but as I’ve gotten older I’ve realized that’s not something I really want to deal with. I mean could you imagine having a misdemeanor (or multiple) on your record from wanting to have kinky, random sex with your partner? This just sounds like a giant headache no one wants to deal with.
If you can guarantee you’re alone and no one is likely to find you, then have at it. But remember to be quick at dressing in case those red and blue lights come flashing up behind your car.
Is car sex completely off the table for me? Well, no. If N and I were out and were in a very secluded area and things just turned steamy, I wouldn’t deny it. Especially since we have a Durango. I’d totally try it in there. But I’m not going to go out of my way to make it happen.
I want to hear your opinions on car sex! Love it or leave it?