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It’s Tuesday Tip time! This week I’m talking about blowjobs. This is my advice to all cock suckers out there. I’ve learned these things over the years so this is coming from experience. I promise these blowjob tricks will help you up your A-Game.

Giving Head is an Art Form

Meaning it takes practice to learn how to give good head. You’ve got to go through trial and errors in order to improve. But remember if you and your partner aren’t communicating, you’ll never improve and your partner won’t get the blowjob they really want.

Once you learn some good tricks, it’s easier to learn more and incorporate more things.

Open Wide

This is a major tip. If your mouth isn’t open wide enough, you run the risk of running your teeth along his cock and that’s not pleasurable. This is my #1 Tip. Open your mouth all the way and make sure that your tongue is rest over your bottom teeth. With your mouth being open all the way your upper lip should cover your top teeth. You’ve got to keep them out of the way and use just your mouth/lips/tongue. Now, you can use some teeth, ever-so-slightly if the guy is into it. If they aren’t then even the slightest amount of teeth could kill it for them.

Use Your Hands!

Honestly, this tip is almost as important as making sure your mouth is open wide enough. When you add your hands into the mixture you can create an even more pleasurable experience for your partner. It is a different sensation and we all know that multiple different sensations can make things much more intense.

Here’s what you do:

Use your mouth on the upper half of the shaft, and then take one (or both!) of your hands on the bottom half. While your sucking the top half, twist your hands (not too hard, you don’t want to Indian burn the cock…) around the bottom half. If you do this both at the same time, you’ll create more sensations for him and thus send him into a more intense orgasm.

Deep Throat

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This tip is definitely for those of you that do not have a gag reflex (✋). If you have a gag reflex there are certain sprays that can help numb your throat so you can comfortably deep throat.

For those of us without a gag reflex, however, it’s quite easier. We don’t have to worry about anything other than taking that cock all the way to the back of our throat. Open your mouth as wide as possible, make sure your teeth are covered properly and swallow that cock. Use your mouth to suck as you do so.

Your Tongue Can Be A Tool

Don’t forget to utilize your tongue.

Here’s what you can do:

First, grab his cock with your hand and use your tongue to trace around the head. Then use your tongue to travel down his cock, tracing around the entire thing. Do this before actually putting it in your mouth to drive him a little more wild.

Did You Forget The Balls?

Don’t. Use both your hands and your mouth to play with his balls while you are giving him oral. The testicles are super sensitive in themselves and this can double the pleasure he gets. If you are only using your mouth on his cock, make sure to use your hand on his balls. And then make sure to switch it up. Use your hand to play with his shaft while you suck on his balls. It’ll create its own unique sensation for him and DRIVE HIM WILD.

To Swallow Or Not?

YOU DO YOU. Seriously that’s my tip. If you like to swallow, then great go for it! If you don’t, then make that clear to him that’s not your thing. To me, it’s easier to swallow because you don’t have to hold it in your mouth for longer than necessary to find some place to spit it out. This is something that should be communicated if you are not comfortable with it, though. There is NO right or wrong here. Sure some guys might prefer the girl to swallow, but don’t get pressured if it’s not something you want to do.

Use ALL Of These Tricks

Next time you’re giving head, try to incorporate all or at least a few of these tricks and completely blow his mind. And remember that practice makes perfect. Sure some women seem to have a natural talent for it, but that doesn’t mean you can’t teach yourself the “correct” (this term is used loosely and I only mean more pleasurable) way to give a blowjob.

I like to start with licking the head as I find the teasing to intensify the experience. I like to follow that up by slowly deep throating and then adding my hand in and then adding in the balls. You can create a whole different experience by starting with just teasing and then building up.

Usually, by the time I get to use my hand, N is ready to just fuck because he’s so turned on.

You might even have some secret tips and tricks that I didn’t list and that’s fucking awesome. Keep using those!

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Remember that sex is different for everyone and some of these tricks might not work for your man. That’s okay too. Just make sure you’re both communicating because if you aren’t, then you don’t know what’s working and what’s not and you cannot grow from that. Which could lead to some resentment later on.

Fellas, please comment below what your favorite things are during oral! ❤

Stay sexy. Stay positive.

XX,

Ashley

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