Hello and welcome to blogmas here at Ashley Dannielle! ❤ I’m so excited to be participating this year and I have some great things planned! I’ve got so much lined up from sexy tips to advice, to reviews, to sexy holiday-themed short stories. I hope you enjoy the next 25 days. Make sure you’re subscribed so you don’t miss out on a single, sexy holiday post!
Maybe you’re single. Or maybe you’re in a relationship (married or not) and your significant other is gone on a business trip. Or maybe you’re in a relationship and your significant other isn’t paying any attention to you. Whatever your status is and however your feeling, you deserve to treat yourself right.
I know what you’re thinking. “But Ashley, what’s this have to do with lacy peach panties?” EVERYTHING. “Also, why the color peach?” Because it’s the only lacey color I own.Now that I’m done answering your questions, I’ll move on.
The other day, I was getting dressed after a long, hot shower. My mom had the day off from work and was watching the kids, so I was actually able to enjoy my shower. I was looking in my underwear drawer for a bra and panties to put on when I saw my matching lacy, peach set. My very first thought was, “but N might not get to see these.” And then I realized something. I wanted to wear that bra and panty set because it made me feel good. It made me feel sexy. So, why not just do it for me? And then I put them on and by the time the kids were in bed and we were too, we were just too tired to do anything. Which is fine, because those were never my intentions.
I know they say “If her bra and panties match, you didn’t plan the sex, she did.” But this wasn’t about sex. This was purely something I did for myself that made me feel confident in myself.
How many times have you been standing in Victoria Secrets and put back a pair of lacy panties or a lacy bra because you don’t think your partner will ever actually see them or you’re single so “what’s the point?” Think about those times. And now DON’T DO IT AGAIN. Next time, buy as many as you possibly can. Because lacy panties are sexy and fun to wear. You should be doing it because YOU want to. Because YOU feel sexy. Because YOU feel confident.
This is what embracing your sexuality is all about. It’s about owning it and working it and knowing that you love yourself enough to dress sexy for yourself NOT just for someone else. So go to Victoria Secrets, go to Target (Seriously, I’ve got a review on those panties coming later because well, they are fucking amazing.) and get yourself some sexy underwear. Put them on and wear them for yourself. No one else. Because at the end of the day, you deserve to feel sexy even if it’s not for sex.
Stay sexy. Stay positive.